“We see things not as they are, but as we are ourselves.”

— H. M. Tomlinson

The Gift http://books.google.com/books?id=TU8jSMUix_wC&q="We+see+things+not+as+they+are+but+as+we+are+ourselves"&pg=PA149#v=onepage

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H. M. Tomlinson 1

British writer 1873–1958

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Lillian was reminded of the talmudic words: "We do not see things as they are, we see them as we are."
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Another similar statement without cited source is also attributed to Nin https://web.archive.org/web/20050322041559/http://learn-gs.org/learningctr/tutorial/4.html: We see the world as "we" are, not as "it" is; because it is the "I" behind the "eye" that does the seeing.
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Variant: We don't see people as they are. We see people as we are.
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