“The emphasis of the men’s group was on understanding, coping, changing the situation and then, if all else failed, getting out; the emphasis of battered women’s groups is on getting out first, and second, locking up the problem”

—  Warren Farrell

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Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say (2000)

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