“The measure of woman’s distaste for any part of her life lies not in the loudness of her lamentations (these are only an attempt to buy a martyr’s crown at a reduced price) but in her persistent pursuit of that occupation of which she never ceases to complain.”

— Quentin Crisp, book The Naked Civil Servant

Source: The Naked Civil Servant (1968), Ch. 15

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