“Nobody really wants to spend life with someone who has no other choice, and children who have been raised by a mother who gave up her life for them almost always spend years on an analyst's couch learning to spit in her eye.”

—  Merle Shain

Some Men are More Perfect Than Others (1973)

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Canadian writer 1935–1989

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