“If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.”
Maya Angelou (1928–2014) American author and poet
"'A feeling of realistic optimism': An interview with Nadine Gordimer" by Karen Lazar, Salmagundi 113 (Winter 1997)
“If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.”
Maya Angelou (1928–2014) American author and poet
“… we've got so many laws you can't breathe without breaking something.”
John Steinbeck book The Winter of Our Discontent
Source: The Winter of Our Discontent (1961), Part Two, Chapter XIV
Nicholas Sparks book True Believer
Doris McClellan, Chapter 3, p. 54
Source: 2000s, True Believer (2005)
“The harder you try to change yourself the worse it gets. You are called upon to be aware.”
Anthony de Mello (1931–1987) Indian writer
"Hidden Agenda" p. 145
Awareness (1992)
Context: Before enlightenment, I used to be depressed; after enlightenment, I continue to be depressed. You don't make a goal out of relaxation and sensitivity. Have you ever heard of people who get tense trying to relax? If one is tense, one simply observes one's tension. You will never understand yourself if you seek to change yourself. The harder you try to change yourself the worse it gets. You are called upon to be aware.