“When we want to do something while unconsciously certain to fail, we seek advice so we can blame someone else for the failure.”

—  Nassim Nicholas Taleb, book The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

Source: The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms (2010), p. 9

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