“It is deeds not words which must purchase my affection and esteem.”
Source: The Tenant of Wildfell Hall (1848), Ch. XLVIII : Further Intelligence; Helen to Arthur
Help us to complete the source, original and additional information
Anne Brontë 148
British novelist and poet 1820–1849Related quotes

“Love is not to be purchased, and affection has no price.”
Caritas non potest conparari; dilectio pretium non habet.
Letter 3
Letters

1950s, Loving Your Enemies (Christmas 1957)
Context: Third we must not seek to defeat or humiliate the enemy but to win his friendship and understanding. At times we are able to humiliate our worst enemy. Inevitably, his weak moments come and we are able to thrust in his side the spear of defeat. But this we must not do. Every word and deed must contribute to an understanding with the enemy and release those vast reservoirs of goodwill which have been blocked by impenetrable walls of hate.

As quoted in Chopin's Letter.
Source: Chopin's Letter (1988) by Henryk Opieński,E. L. Voynich, p. 4
“That which is around me does not affect my mood; my mood affects that which is around me.”
Source: The Art of Racing in the Rain

The Lover's Progress (licensed 6 December 1623; revised 1634; published 1647), Act iii. Sc. 4. Compare: "Deeds, not words", Samuel Butler, Hudibras, part i, canto i, line 867.

Worte sind Taten.
Source: Culture and Value (1980), p. 50e