“When someone is giving you his opinion, you should receive it with deep gratitude even though it is worthless. If you don't, he will not tell you the things that he has seen and heard about you again. It is best to both give and receive opinions in a friendly way.”

—  Tsunetomo Yamamoto , book Hagakure

Hagakure (c. 1716)

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