“Gossip is one thing, hurtful gossip is completely another, and even in high school we weren't THAT mean.”

On Being Human http://books.google.com/books?id=hp0RAAAAMAAJ&amp;q=&amp;quot;Gossips+are+only+sociologists+upon+a+mean+and+petty+scale&amp;quot;&amp;pg=PA326#v=onepage, The Atlantic Monthly, (September, 1897) <br class="br">1920s and later

As quoted in The New Speaker's Treasury of Wit and Wisdom (1958) by Herbert Victor Prochnow, p. 190
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Variant: The only time people dislike gossip is when you gossip about them.

1920s
Variant: No one gossips about other people’s secret virtues.
Source: On Education, Especially in Early Childhood (1926), Ch. 2: The Aims of Education, p. 50
Context: The instinctive foundation of the intellectual life is curiosity, which is found among animals in its elementary forms. Intelligence demands an alert curiosity, but it must be of a certain kind. The sort that leads village neighbours to try to peer through curtains after dark has no very high value. The widespread interest in gossip is inspired, not by a love of knowledge but by malice: no one gossips about other people's secret virtues, but only about their secret vices. Accordingly most gossip is untrue, but care is taken not to verify it. Our neighbour's sins, like the consolations of religion, are so agreeable that we do not stop to scrutinise the evidence closely.

Source: Gossip Girl

Source: Saving Raphael Santiago

Quoted in Gert Jonkers, "Gore Vidal, the Fantastic Man," Butt, No. 20 (7 April 2007)
2000s

Variant: Gossip is what no one claims to like – but everybody enjoys.

Source: Crown Duel (Crown & Court #1 - 2, 1997)

Source: You Oughta Know By Now