“If a man knows precisely what he can do to you or what epithet he can hurl against you in order to make you lose your temper, your equilibrium, then he can always keep you under subjection.”

—  Howard Thurman, book Jesus and the Disinherited

Source: Jesus and the Disinherited

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American writer 1899–1981

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