“Where there had been only fearful emptiness or equally frightening grandiose fan­tasies, an unexpected wealth of vitality is now discovered. This is not a homecoming, since this home has never before existed. It is the creation of home.”

—  Alice Miller

Source: The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self

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