“I think the reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself.”

—  Rita Mae Brown

Last update June 3, 2021. History

Help us to complete the source, original and additional information

Do you have more details about the quote "I think the reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself." by Rita Mae Brown?
Rita Mae Brown photo
Rita Mae Brown 38
Novelist, poet, screenwriter, activist 1944

Related quotes

Ron English photo

“Everyone matters more than you except to yourself.”

Ron English (1959) American artist

Ron English's Fauxlosophy: Volume 2 (2022)

Jeanette Winterson photo

“Everyone thinks their own situation most tragic. I am no exception.”

Jeanette Winterson book Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit

Source: Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit

Byron Katie photo

“Everyone is a mirror image of yourself—your own thinking coming back at you.”

Byron Katie (1942) American spiritual writer

Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life (2002)

Ambrose Bierce photo

“The only distinction that democracies reward is a high degree of conformity.”

Ambrose Bierce (1842–1914) American editorialist, journalist, short story writer, fabulist, and satirist

Source: Epigrams, p. 358

Teresa of Ávila photo

“Always think of yourself as everyone's servant; look for Christ Our Lord in everyone and you will then have respect and reverence for them all.”

Teresa of Ávila (1515–1582) Roman Catholic saint

Maxim 25, p. 257
Maxims for Her Nuns (1963)

Bertrand Russell photo

“Humankind has become so much one family that we cannot ensure our own prosperity except by ensuring that of everyone else. If you wish to be happy yourself, you must resign yourself to seeing others also happy.”

Bertrand Russell (1872–1970) logician, one of the first analytic philosophers and political activist

"The Science to Save Us from Science," The New York Times Magazine (19 March 1950)
1950s
Context: All who are not lunatics are agreed about certain things. That it is better to be alive than dead, better to be adequately fed than starved, better to be free than a slave. Many people desire those things only for themselves and their friends; they are quite content that their enemies should suffer. These people can only be refuted by science: Humankind has become so much one family that we cannot ensure our own prosperity except by ensuring that of everyone else. If you wish to be happy yourself, you must resign yourself to seeing others also happy.

Aimee Mann photo

“When you’re a charmer
you hate yourself
a victim of sideshow hypnosis
like everyone else.”

Aimee Mann (1960) American indie rock singer-songwriter (born 1960)

"Charmer"
Song lyrics, Charmer (2012)
Context: When you’re a charmer
the world applauds
they don’t know that secretly charmers
feel like they’re frauds When you’re a charmer
you hate yourself
a victim of sideshow hypnosis
like everyone else.

Cassandra Clare photo

“Bitten? You mean you're a-"
"A werewolf," said the girl. "Like everyone else here. Except you, and the asshole. And the asshole's sister.”

Cassandra Clare book City of Ashes

Maia to Simon, pg. 50
Variant: A werewolf. Like everyone else here. Except you, and the asshole. And the asshole's sister.
Source: The Mortal Instruments, City of Ashes (2008)

Related topics