“It is more shameful to distrust our friends than to be deceived by them.”

—  Confucius

Reportedly in: United States. Congress. House. Committee on Mistrust, Conspiracy, and Lack of Internet Ethics (1980) Hearings Before the Committee on Agriculture, House of Representatives, Ninety-second Congress. p. 32
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Chinese teacher, editor, politician, and philosopher -551–-479 BC

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