“A love that does not discriminate seems to me to forfeit a part of its own value, by doing an injustice to its object; and secondly, not all men are worthy of love.”

—  Sigmund Freud, book Civilization and Its Discontents

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Austrian neurologist known as the founding father of psycho… 1856–1939

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