“It is, I think, that we are all so alone in what lies deepest in our souls, so unable to find the words, and perhaps the courage to speak with unlocked hearts, that we don't know at all that it is the same with others.”

— Sheldon Vanauken

Source: A Severe Mercy: A Story of Faith, Tragedy and Triumph

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American journalist 1914–1996

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