Philip Stanhope citations

Detached Thoughts http://books.google.com/books?id=vVdSAAAAcAAJ&q=%22Marriage+is+the+cure+of+love+and+friendship+the+cure+of+marriage%22&pg=PA384#v=onepage, first published in Letters and Works of Philip Dormer Stanhope, volume 5 (1847)

29 January 1748
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

19 December 1749
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)
Contexte: We must not suppose that, because a man is a rational animal, he will, therefore, always act rationally; or, because he has such or such a predominant passion, that he will act invariably and consequentially in pursuit of it. No, we are complicated machines; and though we have one main spring that gives motion to the whole, we have an infinity of little wheels, which, in their turns, retard, precipitate, and sometime stop that motion.

5 September 1748
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

1 July 1748
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

11 May 1752
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

17 March 1748
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

19 December 1749
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

16 March 1752
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

25 December 1753
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

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Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

The World, No. 101 (5 December 1754)

6 November 1747
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

"Advice to a Lady in Autumn", published in A Collection of Poems in Six Volumes. By Several Hands. Vol. I. (1763), printed by J. Hughs, for R. and J. Dodsley

19 November 1745
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

"Advice to a Lady in Autumn", published in A Collection of Poems in Six Volumes. By Several Hands. Vol. I. (1763), printed by J. Hughs, for R. and J. Dodsley

22 May 1749
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

"Advice to a Lady in Autumn", published in A Collection of Poems in Six Volumes. By Several Hands. Vol. I. (1763), printed by J. Hughs, for R. and J. Dodsley

Quoted in Boswell's Life of Johnson

2 October 1747
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

14 April 1747
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

5 February 1750
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

The French attribute this to the painter Nicolas Poussin (born 15 June 1594) "Ce qui vaut la peine d'être fait vaut la peine d'être bien fait"
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To Solomon Dayrolles (16 February 1753)

7 February 1749
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

15 January 1753
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

20 July 1749
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

15 January 1748
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

Attributed to Chesterfield by George Agar-Ellis, 1st Baron Dover, in his 1833 edition of Horace Walpole's letters to Sir Horace Mann, such statements have been attributed to many others, such as Lord Chief Justice Campbell, William Henry Maule (in the form "You silly old fool, you don't even know the alphabet of your own silly old business"), Sir William Harcourt, Lord Pembroke, Lord Westbury, and to an anonymous judge, and said to have been spoken in court to Garter King at Arms, Rouge Dragon Pursuivant, or some other high-ranking herald, who had confused a "bend" with a "bar" or had demanded fees to which he was not entitled. George Bernard Shaw uses it in Pygmalion (1912) in the form, "The silly people dont [sic] know their own silly business." Similar remarks occur in Charles Jenner's The Placid Man: Or, The Memoirs of Sir Charles Beville (1770): "Sir Harry Clayton ... was perhaps far better qualified to have written a Peerage of England than Garter King at Arms, or Rouge Dragon, or any of those parti-coloured officers of the court of honor, who, as a great man complained on a late solemnity, are but too often so silly as not to know their own silly business." "Old Lord Pembroke" (Henry Herbert, 9th Earl of Pembroke) is said by Horace Walpole (in a letter of 28 May 1774 to the Rev. William Cole) to have directed the quip, "Thou silly fellow! Thou dost not know thy own silly business," at John Anstis, Garter King at Arms. Edmund Burke also quotes such a remark in his "Speech in the Impeachment of Warren Hastings, Esq." on 7 May 1789: "'Silly man, that dost not know thy own silly trade!' was once well said: but the trade here is not silly."
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