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The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, first published in 1989, is a business and self-help book written by Stephen Covey. Covey presents an approach to being effective in attaining goals by aligning oneself to what he calls "true north" principles based on a character ethic that he presents as universal and timeless.

Covey defines effectiveness as the balance of obtaining desirable results with caring for that which produces those results. He illustrates this by referring to the fable of the goose that laid the golden eggs. He further claims that effectiveness can be expressed in terms of the P/PC ratio, where P refers to getting desired results and PC is caring for that which produces the results.

Covey's best-known book has sold more than 25 million copies worldwide since its first publication. The audio version became the first non-fiction audio-book in U.S. publishing history to sell more than one million copies. Covey argues against what he calls "the personality ethic", that he sees as prevalent in many modern self-help books. He promotes what he labels "the character ethic": aligning one's values with so-called universal and timeless principles. In doing this, Covey is deliberately and mindfully separating principles and values. He sees principles as external natural laws, while values remain internal and subjective. Our values govern our behavior, while principles ultimately determine the consequences. Covey presents his teachings in a series of habits, manifesting as a progression from dependence through independence on to interdependence.


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“Courage is not the absence of fear but the awareness that something else is more important.”

Foreword to Prisoners of our Thoughts : Viktor Frankl's Principles at Work (2004), by Alex Pattakos, p. x
This statement has also been attributed to James Neil Hollingsworth (AKA: Ambrose Redmoon) in an article entitled "No Peaceful Warriors!" for Gnosis Magazine #21, in 1991.
Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“Two people can see the same thing, disagree, and yet both be right. It's not logical; it's psychological.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“Each of us guard a gate of change that can only be opened from the inside.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“The core of any family is what is changeless, what is going to be there──shared vision and values.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“we're responsible for our own lives.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“We see the world, not as it is, but as we are──or, as we are conditioned to see it.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“If you want to have a more pleasant, cooperative teenager, be a more understanding, emphatic, consistent, loving parent.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“At some time in your life, you probably had someone believe in you when you didn't believe in yourself.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“People can't live with change if there's not a changeless core inside them.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“When air is charged with emotions, an attempt to teach is often perceived as a form of judgment and rejection.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“We not not our feelings. We are not our moods. We not even our thoughts.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“We can't live without eating, but we don't live to eat.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

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“Happiness, like unhappiness, is a proactive choice.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“To change ourselves effectively, we first had to change our perceptions.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

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“It's not what happens to us, but our response to what happens to us that hurts us.”

Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change