“A real relationship is two-way.”

Facebook Nation: Total Information Awareness (2nd Edition), 2014

Source: Red Mars (1992), Chapter 6, “Guns Under the Table” (p. 460)

Original: (it) Un'ottima relazione è pura follia da vivere in due.
Source: prevale.net

Source: tealswan.com/quotes

Source: Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ (1995), p. 8

We the People interview (1996)
Context: Traditionally the gaze was conceived as a way of fingering, of touching. The old Greeks spoke about looking as a way of sending out my psychopodia, my soul's limbs, to touch your face and establish a relationship between the two of us. This relationship was called vision. Then, after Galileo, the idea developed that the eyes are receptors into which light brings something from the outside, keeping you separate from me even when I look at you. People began to conceive of their eyes as some kind of camera obscura. In our age people conceive of their eyes and actually use them as if they were part of a machinery. They speak about interface. Anybody who says to me, "I want to have an interface with you," I say, "please go somewhere else, to a toilet or wherever you want, to a mirror." Anybody who says, "I want to communicate with you," I say, "Can't you talk? Can't you speak? Can't you recognize that there's a deep otherness between me and you, so deep that it would be offensive for me to be programmed in the same way you are."