“Grudges seldom hurt anyone except the one bearing them.”

“Akri hides from no one. He don’t need to. Anyone hurt my akri, I eat them. (Simi)”

“Lydia: Strange how you always remember the pain someone gave you, but seldom the hurt you caused them.”

“Potter bears a grudge against potter, and craftsman against craftsman, and beggar is envious of beggar, and bard of bard.”

“A gentleman is one who never hurts anyone's feelings unintentionally.”

“A woman you've endured such a gnawing of desire for, you can't help bearing a little grudge against, when the ache is gone.”

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else's sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”

“Mingling with people, hurting them, getting hurt by them…that's how you learn about others…and about yourself. If you don't you'll never be able to care about anyone but yourself.”

“Was anyone hurt?”

“… and there you have it, another body on the floor surrounded by things that don't mean much to anyone except to the one who can't take any of them along.”