
“One can forgive but one should never forget.”
Source: Persepolis: The Story of a Childhood
Statement of 1848, as quoted in The Cynic's Lexicon : A Dictionary of Amoral Advice (1984) by Jonathon Green, p. 91
One must forgive one's enemies, but not before they are hanged.
As quoted in A Mania for Sentences (1985) by Dennis Joseph Enright, p. 10
Variant: We should forgive our enemies, but not before they are hanged
“One can forgive but one should never forget.”
Source: Persepolis: The Story of a Childhood
The Story of Islamic Imperialism in India (1994)
“The motto should not be: Forgive one another; rather, Understand one another.”
Anarchism and Other Essays (1910), The Tragedy of Woman’s Emancipation
“Before we can forgive one another, we have to understand one another.”
Source: It Came from Within!: The Shocking Truth of What Lurks in the Heart
“One should attend to one's enemies, for they are the first persons to detect one's errors.”
§ 5
From Lives and Opinions of the Eminent Philosophers by Diogenes Laërtius
“It is easier to forgive an Enemy than to forgive a Friend.”
Source: 1800s, Jerusalem The Emanation of The Giant Albion (c. 1803–1820), Ch. 4, plate 91, line 1
Psychomagic: The Transformative Power of Shamanic Psychotherapy (2010)
Context: Family hurts us, it is like a trap, it shortens our life, it bothers us psychically and socioculturally, it forces us into a limited level of consciousness, it robs us of our essential self, it inculcates ideas in us that are not our own, and at the moment when we find ourselves in the world, all of this collapses and we have to build a life from scratch. We forgive ourselves because no one is guilty. Generation after generation, each one is victim to the one before. We end up with many centuries of being victims, but in the end you understand that there is no reason for resentment.
“Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names.”
As quoted in Mayor (1984) by Ed Koch
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