“All male friendships are essentially quixotic: they last only so long as each man is willing to polish the shaving-bowl helmet, climb on his donkey, and ride off after the other in pursuit of illusive glory and questionable adventure.”

—  Michael Chabon , book Wonder Boys

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Novelist, short story writer, essayist 1963

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