“It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”
Epictetus (50–138) philosopher from Ancient Greece
Living to Tell the Tale (2002)
Variant: Life is not what one lived, but what one remembers and how one remembers it in order to recount it.
“It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”
Epictetus (50–138) philosopher from Ancient Greece
“What's happening is merely what's happening. How you feel about it is another matter.”
Neale Donald Walsch (1943) American writer
Source: Conversations with God: An Uncommon Dialogue, Book 1
Christopher Pike (1954) American author Kevin Christopher McFadden
Source: The Red Dice
Jack Layton (1950–2011) Leader of the New Democratic Party of Canada
To Mr. Harper, contending the Prime Minister used advocate cleaning up government and caring for the environment; 2011 English Language Federal Election Debate http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/politics/obituary-jack-layton-in-quotes/article2135661/?from=sec368
“Can I remember— “I remember lots,” I say. How much of what I remember is true is another matter.”
Charles Stross book Glasshouse
Source: Glasshouse (2006), Chapter 15, “Recovery” (p. 250)