“I live for coincidences. They briefly give to me the illusion or the hope that there's a pattern to my life, and if there's a pattern, then maybe I'm moving toward some kind of destiny where it's all explained.”

— Jonathan Ames

Source: My Less Than Secret Life: A Diary, Fiction, Essays

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