Titon Rahmawan quote: “Is gratitude necessarily born as our response to the suffering of others?”

“Gratitude is a sickness suffered by dogs.”

Joseph Stalin (1879–1953) General secretary of the Communist Party of the Soviet Union

As quoted in The Memoirs of Stalin's former secretary (1992) by Boris Bazhanov [Saint Petersburg] (in Russian) http://lib.ru/MEMUARY/BAZHANOW/stalin.txt
Contemporary witnesses

“"Man is born unto the trouble as the sparks fly upwards." In other words suffering is germane to our existence; indeed, how without it, should we be able to "fly upwards".”

Andrei Tarkovsky book Sculpting in Time

Source: Sculpting in Time (1986), p. 239

“One isn't necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. Without courage, we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. We cannot be kind, true, merciful, generous, or honest.”

Maya Angelou (1928–2014) American author and poet

“Love of God is pure when joy and suffering inspire an equal degree of gratitude.”

Simone Weil book Gravity and Grace

Source: Gravity and Grace

“…the possession of great power necessarily implies great responsibility.”

William Lamb, 2nd Viscount Melbourne (1779–1848) British Whig statesman

Speech https://api.parliament.uk/historic-hansard/commons/1817/jun/27/habeas-corpus-suspension-bill#column_1227 in the House of Commons (27 June 1817)