““I will not let anyone dictate what they want from me. I have to take control of myself.””

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“I have now established an enviable way of living, and if anyone wants anything from me they must come to me.”

Francisco De Goya (1746–1828) Spanish painter and printmaker (1746–1828)

letter to his friend Don Martín Zapater, signed and dated Madrid, 1 August 1786, location: Pierpont Morgan Library Dept. of Literary and Historical Manuscripts http://www.themorgan.org/collection/102401
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“I want to have adventures and take enormous risks and be everything they say we are and not give a damn what anyone says.”

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