"The Rose" (published c. 1648). Compare: "Flower of all hue, and without thorn the rose", John Milton, Paradise Lost, book iv. line 256.; "Every rose has it's thorn", Poison, "Every Rose Has Its Thorn".
Hesperides (1648)
“If man's heart bares thistles instead of rose who will dare to admire? Before roses cometh thorns, but people only see the thorns not the roses I bare.”
Related quotes
“No rose without a thorn but many a thorn without a rose.”
“But he, that dares not grasp the thorn
Should never crave the rose.”
The Narrow Way (1848)
Context: On all her breezes borne
Earth yields no scents like those;
But he, that dares not grasp the thorn
Should never crave the rose.
“A stranger's rose is but a thorn.”
In Alien Lands, translated by Leah W. Leonard.
“Romantic: one who professes to prefer the thorns to the rose.”
Signposts to Elsewhere (2008)
Section 7 : Spiritual Progress
Founding Address (1876), Life and Destiny (1913)
Context: By what sort of experience are we led to the conviction that spirit exists? On the whole, by searching, painful experience. The rose Religion grows on a thorn-bush, and we must not be afraid to have our fingers lacerated by the thorns if we would pluck the rose.
“every time I've held a rose,
It seems I only felt the thorns”