“Men can frighten us, other women can frighten us, and sometimes we worry so much about what frightens us that we wait to have an orgasm until we are alone. We pretend to want things we don’t want so nobody can see us not getting what we need.”
Source: On women being told to control their own impulses in “Lisa Taddeo on her bestseller Three Women: 'I thought I was writing a quiet little book'” https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/dec/06/lisa-taddeo-interview-three-women in The Guardian (2019 Dec 6)
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American writer and journalist 1980Related quotes

Source: What Got You Here Won't Get You There, 2008, p. 125 (in 2010 edition)

Speaking at the Federal Law Enforcement Training Center regarding the proposed immigration bill http://georgewbush-whitehouse.archives.gov/news/releases/2007/05/20070529-7.html (May 29, 2007)
2000s, 2007
Source: When Women Were Birds: Fifty-four Variations on Voice

“Sometimes we want what we want even if we know it’s going to kill us.”
Source: The Goldfinch