“I think empathy is not learned. Maybe I’m wrong, but in my experience it’s not.”

—  Nanfu Wang

Source: "Interview with “In the Same Breath” Director Nanfu Wang" in Film Festival Today https://filmfestivaltoday.com/interviews/interview-with-in-the-same-breath-director-nanfu-wang (23 August 2021)

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