“It is so easy for a woman to become what the man she loves believes her to be”
Edith Wharton book The House of Mirth
Source: The House of Mirth
Source: Book 2, Chapter 2 “The Castle Built of Blood” (p. 320), Corum, The King of the Swords (1971)
“It is so easy for a woman to become what the man she loves believes her to be”
Edith Wharton book The House of Mirth
Source: The House of Mirth
“Wish it, believe it, and it will be so.”
Deborah Smith (1955) writer of romance and women's fiction
Source: Alice at Heart
Emma Goldman (1868–1940) anarchist known for her political activism, writing, and speeches
The Philosophy of Atheism (1916)
François de La Rochefoucauld (1613–1680) French author of maxims and memoirs
Ce qui nous fait croire si facilement que les autres ont des défauts, c'est la facilité que l'on a de croire ce qu'on souhaite.
Variant translation: What makes us believe so easily that others have faults is the ease with which we believe what we hope for.
Maxim 25 from the Manuscrit de Liancourt.
Later Additions to the Maxims
“An enemy generally says and believes what he wishes.”
Thomas Jefferson (1743–1826) 3rd President of the United States of America
“5426. We are apt to believe what we wish for.”
Thomas Fuller (writer) (1654–1734) British physician, preacher, and intellectual
Introductio ad prudentiam: Part II (1727), Gnomologia (1732)