“When we are too generous in the sexual act and our main preoccupation is with our partner’s pleasure, our own pleasure can be diminished or even destroyed.”

— Paulo Coelho , book Manuscript Found in Accra

Manuscript Found in Accra (2012), About sex

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Brazilian lyricist and novelist 1947

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