“And what is it to act upon others as you would that others would act upon you? It is to put yourself in the place of others. It is consideration of others as ardent as consideration of self. It is the balancing of abilities, supplementation, the social ideal.”

Source: Better-World Philosophy: A Sociological Synthesis (1899), The Social Ideal, p. 164

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