Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach (1830–1916) Austrian writer
Wir sollen immer verzeihen, dem Reuigen um seinetwillen, dem Reuelosen um unseretwillen.
Source: Aphorisms (1880/1893), p. 25.
"Political Correctness: Robert Bly and Philip Larkin" (1997)
Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach (1830–1916) Austrian writer
Wir sollen immer verzeihen, dem Reuigen um seinetwillen, dem Reuelosen um unseretwillen.
Source: Aphorisms (1880/1893), p. 25.
“It is always easier to get forgiveness than permission.”
Lois McMaster Bujold Vorkosigan Saga
This seems to be derived from a statement attributed to Rear Admiral Grace Hopper, and which she regularly used in her public addresses: "It's easier to ask forgiveness than it is to get permission."
Vorkosigan Saga, A Civil Campaign (1999)
“It’s always easier to hate than to forgive, isn’t it?”
Alastair Reynolds book Pushing Ice
Source: Pushing Ice (2005), Chapter 14 (p. 233)
“A mistake is always forgivable, rarely excusable, and never acceptable.”
Robert Fripp (1946) English guitarist, composer and record producer
Guitar Craft Monograph III: Aphorisms, Oct. 27 1988
“Mistakes are always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit them.”
Bruce Lee (1940–1973) Hong Kong-American actor, martial artist, philosopher and filmmaker
“Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.”
Oscar Wilde (1854–1900) Irish writer and poet
Variant: Always forgive your enemies — nothing annoys them so much.
“A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.”
Milton Berle (1908–2002) American comedian and actor