“The psychotherapist … tries to help the individual to be himself and to go it alone without giving unnecessary offense to his community, to be in the world (of social convention) but not of the world.”

—  Alan Watts

Source: Psychotherapy, East and West (1961), p. 7

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British philosopher, writer and speaker 1915–1973

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