
“We are Sex Bob-Omb and we are here to make you think about death and get sad and stuff!”
Source: Scott Pilgrim, Volume 1: Scott Pilgrim's Precious Little Life
Source: The Sacred Depths of Nature (1998), p. 151
Context: Sex without death gets you single-celled algae and fungi; sex with a mortal soma gets you the rest of the eukaryotic creatures. Death is the price paid to have trees, and clams and birds and grasshoppers, and death is the price paid to have human consciousness, to be aware of all that shimmering awareness and all that love.
“We are Sex Bob-Omb and we are here to make you think about death and get sad and stuff!”
Source: Scott Pilgrim, Volume 1: Scott Pilgrim's Precious Little Life
“Sex. If you want it badly that's how you're going to get it.”
Attention Scum! (2001), How To Live (2005)
“It isn`t premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.”
“Sex, drugs, and image is just enough to get you by in the real world”
Dearest Helpless
Song lyrics, Neon Ballroom (1999)
“Sexuality is an expression of our spirituality. Sex makes you get real.”
Playboy, July 1992.
“He gets sex, she gets sex; if that is considered unequal, no wonder men are afraid of commitment.”
Source: Why Men Are the Way They Are (1988), p. 240.
Get Up (I Feel Like Being a) Sex Machine, written with Bobby Byrd and Ron Lenhoff (1970)
Song lyrics
“In Nevada, there was a time when you couldn’t get unemployment unless you tried sex work first.”
The Humanist interview (2012)
Context: If someone wants to be called a sex worker, I call them a sex worker. But there is a problem with that term, because while it was adopted in goodwill, traffickers have taken it and essentially said, “Okay, if it’s work like any other, somebody has to do it.” In Nevada, there was a time when you couldn’t get unemployment unless you tried sex work first. The same was true in Germany. So the state became a procurer because of the argument that sex is work like any other. This is not a good thing.
I also do not feel proud when I stand in the Sonagachi, the biggest brothel area in all of South Asia. It’s in Kolkata, and everything is written in Bengali except “SEX WORK.” And the term is used in various sinister ways by sex traffickers, who even describe what they do — which is to kidnap or buy people out of villages — as “facilitated migration.”
I’ve only ever met one woman who actually was a prostitute of her own free will. She didn’t have a pimp. She could pick and choose her customers. That’s so rare. So we have to look at the reality and not romanticize it. We have to be clear that you have the right to sell your own body but nobody has the right to sell anybody else’s body. No one has that right.
“You know that look that women get when they want to have sex? Me neither.”