“The heart of the jealous knows the best and most satisfying love, that of the other’s bed, where the rival perfects the lover’s imperfections.”

— Djuna Barnes , book Nightwood

Source: Nightwood (1936), Ch. 5 : Watchman, What of the Night?

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American Modernist writer, poet and artist 1892–1982

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