“A Wise man knows that much of what he says and does is commonplace and trivial. His thoughts are not all solemn and sacred in his own eyes. He is able to laugh at himself and is not offended when others make him a subject whereon to exercise their wit.”

— John Lancaster Spalding

Source: Aphorisms and Reflections (1901), p. 270

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Catholic bishop 1840–1916

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