“…people are pretty much the same. Especially through adolescence and early adulthood. For the most part, people go through the same experiences and think the same thing, but somehow on one ever escapes the belief that his experience is unique in every conceivable way.”

—  Nicholas Sparks

Stephanie Parker, Chapter 9, p. 111
2000s, The Choice (2007)

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