“Do you suppose a woman knows why she loves? Does she select? Does she say to herself, 'Go to! here is a distinguished statesman with presidential possibilities; I shall proceed to fall in love with him.' or, 'I shall set my heart upon this musician, whose fame is on every tongue?”

—  Kate Chopin , book The Awakening

or 'this financier, who controls the world's money markets?'"
The Awakening (1899)

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