“People can be lovers and enemies at the same time, you know. We were… A man and woman draw apart from that long embrace, and see what they have done to each other… In age we lose everything; even the power to love.”

— Willa Cather , book My Mortal Enemy

Part II, Ch. 4
My Mortal Enemy (1926)

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American writer and novelist 1873–1947

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