“Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children.”

—  Alex Haley

Statement in Reader's Digest (1987), as quoted in Incredibly American : Releasing the Heart of Quality (1992) by Marilyn R. Zuckerman and Lewis J. Hatala, p. 13.

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African American biographer, screenwriter, and novelist 1921–1992

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