“A metaphor for what happens to men living in a secure peace of plenty like your own, the bonobo way looks eerily familiar. Aren't most men today spoiled momma's boys without father figures, without hunting or fighting or brother-bonds, whose only masculine outlet is promiscuous sex?”

—  Jack Donovan

pg 118
The Way of Men (2012)

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American activist, editor and writer 1974

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