“I remember thinking how often we look, but never see … we listen, but never hear … we exist, but never feel. We take our relationships for granted. A house is only a place. It has no life of its own. It needs human voices, activity and laughter to come alive.”

—  Erma Bombeck

A Marriage Made In Heaven; or, Too Tired For an Affair (1993)

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