“It is important for a father who feels pushed away to say, in effect, "When you do that, I feel unwanted as a father," or "I feel my rough-housing is not bad parenting; it's my contribution to helping our child take risks." Women cannot hear what men do not say.”

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Father and Child Reunion (2001)

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author, spokesperson, expert witness, political candidate 1943

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