“You have a wonderful child. Then, when he's thirteen, gremlins carry him away and leave in his place a stranger who gives you not a moment's peace. You have to hang in there, because two or three years later, the gremlins will return your child and he will be wonderful again.”

— Jill Eikenberry

Reported in Eva Shaw, For the Love of Children (1998), p. 133.

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