“A mother, who is really a mother, is never free.”

— Honoré de Balzac

Une vraie mère n’est pas libre.
Part I, ch. XLV.
Letters of Two Brides (1841-1842)

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Une vraie mère n’est pas libre.

Letters of Two Brides (1841-1842)

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French writer 1799–1850

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