Another couplet from Edward Young: this time Night Thoughts, Night II, line 160.
Misattributed
“A man who attempts to debate when he cannot listen must make a wretched display of impotence.”
An Old Man's Thoughts on Many Things, Of Education I
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English classical scholar 1800–1879Related quotes
“What a wretched sort of deception, when a man so lies to his friends that he dupes himself.”
Ez ist ein armer trügesite,
der vriunden alsô liuget,
daz er sich selben triuget.
Source: Tristan, Line 12308
Source: Regards sur le monde actuel [Reflections on the World Today] (1931), p. 58
“One seeks to make the loved one entirely happy, or, if that cannot be, entirely wretched.”
L'on veut faire tout le bonheur, ou si cela ne se peut ainsi, tout le malheur de ce qu'on aime.
Aphorism 39
Les Caractères (1688), Du Coeur
“There comes a time in every man's life when he must make way for an older man.”
Remark made in Smoking Room of House of Commons on being dropped from Margaret Thatcher's Shadow Cabinet.
Attributed
Source: A Thousand Splendid Suns (2007)
Context: Nana (to Mariam) : A man's heart isn't like a woman's womb, Mariam! It won't bleed, it won't make room for you. A man's heart is a wretched, wretched thing. I'm all you have in this world, Mariam and when I'm gone, you'll have nothing. You are nothing!
“Every man who observes, must have seen what bad listeners most people are.”
An Old Man's Thoughts on Many Things, Of Education I
Context: Every man who observes, must have seen what bad listeners most people are. Inability to attend carefully to what is spoken is a great defect, which leads to blunders, misrepresentation, and sometimes to quarrels.