“Instead of celebrating what makes each child unique, most parents push their children to "fit in" so that they don't "stick out."”

— Tom Rath

Tom Rath & Donald O. Clifton (2004) How Full Is Your Bucket? Positive Strategies for Work and Life. p. 36

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