“Girls are made of water and boys are made of mud. When I am with girls I feel fresh and clean, but when I am with boys I feel stupid and nasty.”

— Cao Xueqin , book Dream of the Red Chamber

Source: Dream of the Red Chamber (c. 1760), Chapter 2

Original

女兒是水作的骨肉，男人是泥作的骨肉。我見了女兒，我便清爽；見了男子，便覺濁臭逼人。

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Chinese writer during the Qing dynasty 1724–1763

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