“I wish to God that you had as much pleasure in following my advice, as I have in giving it to you.”

— Philip Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield

5 February 1750
Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (1774)

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