“At its fundamentally flawed core, the aim of almost any learning program is to help us become who we are not… From the cradle to the cubicle, we devote more time to our shortcomings than to our strengths.”

—  Tom Rath

As cited in: Patrick Hollingworth (2016), The Light and Fast Organisation. p. 156
StrengthsFinder 2.0, 2007

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